We are back from vaca after a bumpy plain ride that I hated! I am blessed to be home safe, but I think by far this pilot gave me a nervous breakdown damn near. Anyway...I think I discovered somethings in my private thought time. I as a person, a woman...have a guard up when it comes to female friends. I know I am not the only one right? RIGHT! We all are leery of each other, but some people don't feel leery they just go with the flow. But I have learned that going with the flow is what gets you hurt, and let down by those that you finally let in as "friends". I have been one to have one BF since I was in junior high, and over the years we have disintegrated, but in the process my Honey went from my love to my love and my best friend which is perfect for me up until I want to talk about chic shit and I am saying..."do you hear me..do you hear me.."I was watching one of my favorite new shows Tiny and Toya and they are new adult friends who actually seem to get something from each other. At that moment as I watched the show, I just realized they are not childhood friends, they are new adult friends. With love for each other...I would have pushed the friendship away from a need to protect my feelings...
So is it possible to have new adult friends be real friends, and trust them? Should I stop pushing new people away out of my own fear? What's your take?
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